[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":104},["ShallowReactive",2],{"post-/posts/my-mom":3,"category-/posts/my-mom":87,"surround-/posts/my-mom":95},{"id":4,"title":5,"body":6,"category":62,"comments":63,"date":79,"description":18,"extension":80,"meta":81,"navigation":82,"path":83,"seo":84,"stem":85,"__hash__":86},"posts/posts/004.my-mom.md","我媽咪",{"type":7,"value":8,"toc":58},"minimark",[9,16,19,22,25,28,31,34,37,40,43,46,49,52,55],[10,11,12],"p",{},[13,14],"img",{"alt":5,"src":15},"/images/004.my-mom.1.jpg",[10,17,18],{},"這些年來，由於媽媽無私無我的付出，在家裡有兩個臥床病人的情況下，還能維持基本的運作；也由於媽媽的堅強，使我們能更勇敢地面對未來。",[10,20,21],{},"媽媽自幼失怙，外婆靠變賣產業扶養三個小孩。身為長女的媽媽，同時也負起照顧弟弟妹妹的責任。為了能早日負擔家計，媽媽北一女初中部畢業，就選擇進入台北女師就讀。",[10,23,24],{},"畢業後，十八歲那年，就嫁給了爸爸，因此來到了花蓮。這位從台北來的年輕漂亮打扮入時的女老師，立刻受到全班同學的喜愛。媽媽不但免費替學生課後輔導，還帶全班騎腳踏車到海邊郊遊。而後媽媽投身教育四十幾年，都保有這樣的熱情與使命感。",[10,26,27],{},"媽媽認真用功，從花蓮搬來台北後，媽媽珍惜每個進修的機會，白天上班晚上唸書，學期上班暑假唸書，後來拿到了碩士學位。媽媽不但自己愛唸書，也希望我們愛唸書。不過，媽媽更注重我們的生活教育，尤其是禮貌：媽媽對我們的要求，完全傳承了儒家的道統。晨昏定省、遊必有方是基本要求。此外，比如聽到爸爸回來，一定要放下手邊的工作，到門口迎接；看到長輩要立刻起身問好。至於餐桌禮儀和電話禮貌的規定，比國民生活須知還要多一倍。",[10,29,30],{},"媽媽退休前先後當過二十幾年的訓導主任和教務主任。媽媽很有責任感且做事周延，深獲主管器重。雖然每天早出晚歸地忙碌，對我們的關心不曾鬆懈。媽媽採突擊檢查的重點式管理：高二那年，有段時間放學後，我和同學到學校附近的圖書館唸書。有天，唸到一半，耳邊突然有媽媽說話的聲音：",[10,32,33],{},"「妳在唸什麼？」",[10,35,36],{},"「地理。」",[10,38,39],{},"然後，媽媽像剛巡過堂似地走出閱覽室。",[10,41,42],{},"媽媽走路很挺很快，對穿著很有品味。不僅如此，媽媽的手藝絕佳，煮什麼都好吃。當媽媽看到我們把飯菜都吃完，很得意地說以後退休有事做了，可以開家館子叫「劉主任小吃店」。",[10,44,45],{},"正當弟弟的學業即將告一段落之時，爸爸的腳開始無力行走。媽媽陪著爸爸四處就醫，最後經醫生診斷為運動神經元病變。媽媽在了解這個病症的發展狀況之後，就決定辦理退休，全心照顧爸爸。",[10,47,48],{},"媽媽很愛爸爸，而且視爸爸為家裡的大樹。雖然媽媽在事業上很成功，但對爸爸的依賴很深。媽媽的震驚、害怕、沮喪可想而知。之後病情果然如預期，和爸爸的溝通由原本的對談變為筆談，後來只能用眼睛看注音板來表達。媽媽就說要當爸爸的手和口，這對動作快個性急的媽媽來說是一大修練。幾年下來，媽媽總是耐著性子和爸爸完成一篇又一篇的文章。只是長時間用手舉注音板，手肘已經受傷。又因長期傾向病床的站立姿勢，使得膝蓋腫脹疼痛。但媽媽鮮少對旁人說身體的不適。",[10,50,51],{},"正當媽媽習慣早出晚歸於醫院和家裡之時，我也病倒了。在住院期間，媽媽來看我時，總是紅腫著雙眼，但極少在我面前掉淚。也許是了解因果的力量，讓媽媽的情緒得到紓解，媽媽每天進佛堂做功課，除此之外，媽媽把經驗分享給病友家屬，到監獄演講，投入公益活動，讓每個靠近媽媽的人都感受到溫暖。",[10,53,54],{},"在媽媽身上我看到無止盡的愛。",[10,56,57],{},"原文刊載於覺行第十一期",{"title":59,"searchDepth":60,"depth":60,"links":61},"",2,[],"我的最愛",[64,68,72,76],{"author":65,"createdAt":66,"content":67},"goodstuff1994","2008-04-04T11:09:16+08:00","I really enjoy reading your articles.  This is exactly what I vividly remember the graceful, loving and understanding Chen-ma-ma.\nWish you and your family the best!\n--  Sherry\n",{"author":69,"createdAt":70,"content":71},"丸子起床","2008-03-24T09:16:08+08:00","老師，陳媽媽的堅毅令人動容，她是最強壯的支柱，也是最溫柔的和風，祈願你們都平安快樂！\n淑慧 hahaha\n",{"author":73,"createdAt":74,"content":75},"小利安","2008-03-24T08:42:40+08:00","老師  我看到你寫的這篇文章，我好感動，感動的想哭了;但現在是上班時間，眼淚只能在眼睛裡打轉！陳媽媽真是偉大的媽媽與成功的女性，我真的很敬佩她！她擁有我所沒有的「堅強」 ...... 我想是陳媽媽讓你們可以獲得另外一種重生;瞭解生命的意義  祝福你們！ 利敏 Lilyan\n",{"author":77,"createdAt":74,"content":78},"小小","陳媽媽知道老師的格子嗎？很感人的一篇文章\n","2008-03-10T16:26:00+08:00","md",{},true,"/posts/my-mom",{"title":5,"description":18},"posts/004.my-mom","9ounM9-8SDi1CCxZvK03MCILcs-KOlHazsw3V7tbyQQ",{"id":88,"description":89,"extension":90,"meta":91,"name":62,"slug":92,"stem":93,"__hash__":94},"categories/categories/1.family.yml",null,"yml",{},"family","categories/1.family","kbLTgYtHhlAhDN56tHMQV3l9HcghaZIEV0sThmQf9A0",[96,100],{"title":97,"path":98,"stem":99,"children":-1},"涵涵的文章","/posts/douglas-articles","posts/003.douglas-articles",{"title":101,"path":102,"stem":103,"children":-1},"天使姊姊與麵包妹","/posts/angel-sister-and-bread-girl","posts/005.angel-sister-and-bread-girl",1773241643334]