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2009-3-6\n\nPs.單身的唯一缺點就是寂寞...尤其是生病、挫折的時候...\n\n尤其在海外工作的那段期間，感受更深...\n",[258],{"author":259,"createdAt":260,"content":261},"美拉卓瑪","2009-03-09T15:15:27+08:00","親愛的鈴惠\n宗教信仰或可使寂寞獲得慰藉\n",{"author":254,"createdAt":263,"content":264,"replies":265},"2009-03-05T21:16:55+08:00","好奇點了這篇跟涵涵的文章，才發現原來心心不但有位令人羨慕的好老公，\n\n還有一雙體貼孝順的好兒女(是兒、女沒錯吧！)，讓至今還是敗犬(但不是女王喔)的我好生羨慕啊～\n\n以前看多了長官、同事、朋友他們分分合合的婚姻，\n\n以及電視報章雜誌上的高離婚率、速食愛情等，\n\n老實說，多多少少讓我感嘆幸福婚姻不易維持。\n\n現在知道心心是讓幸福包圍著的，讓我真的好高興也好安心！\n\n心心～感謝妳跟陳爸爸陳媽媽的幸福故事，讓我覺得當人真好！～\n\n鈴惠 2009-3-5\n",[266],{"author":259,"createdAt":267,"content":268},"2009-03-06T13:17:41+08:00","親愛的鈴惠\n單身也很好啊\n自由自在的\n\n從我生病後\n我們才開始珍惜家人在一起的時光\n常感嘆健康的夫妻更該寶貝在一起的日子\n\n鴻鴻涵涵都是男生\n",{"author":270,"createdAt":271,"content":272,"replies":273},"m8533014","2009-02-28T01:57:32+08:00","結婚生子後,再加上仍在工作,實在是沒有時間處理家庭工作以外的事情了,今天大嘴行到公司找我,我們一起坐公車回家的路上,才知道原來老師有部落格,就趁貝比睡覺的空檔趕緊抓緊時間尋找\"美拉卓瑪\"的部落格,看到這篇文章時.忍不住要回一下...就是真的很感人!老師..你知道我是誰嗎?\n",[274],{"author":259,"createdAt":275,"content":276},"2009-03-01T22:48:19+08:00","是小蘋果\n",{"author":278,"createdAt":279,"content":280},"未知","2008-09-30T20:21:01+08:00","老師\n最近你好嗎\n我上次去看你時，我當下看到你的拉威爾在你身旁時，我很感動。\n拉威爾真的很不容易。在現在的社會中，能做到不離不棄真的很不容易。但是，也看到拉威爾對老師的愛是何等的深。\n蘭心\n",{"author":282,"createdAt":283,"content":284},"laymoing","2008-08-27T14:31:05+08:00","謝謝爸爸媽媽姐姐姐夫, 讓我看到真正的愛.\n",{"author":286,"createdAt":287,"content":288,"replies":289},"丸子起床","2008-08-27T08:38:21+08:00","一生一世的守候\n\n和\n\n不棄不離的愛\n\n好感動唷\n\n小丸子也要向老師看齊~\n\n祝福老師和師丈甜蜜幸福\n\n20年、25年、30年、35年、40年.........永永遠遠!\n",[290],{"author":259,"createdAt":291,"content":292},"2008-08-28T12:29:20+08:00","小丸子還是跟健宇健健康康快快樂樂過日子。不要跟我看齊喔\n",{"author":294,"createdAt":295,"content":296},"小行","2008-08-26T23:04:08+08:00","好甜蜜唷 \u003Cimg 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